I love you unconditionally
From google.com
This post may sound cheesy but what I will do is to try my best to be straight to the point. Let me start with this, what is unconditional? Based on google.com it is not subject to any conditions. Synonymous to the word - wholehearted, unqualified, unreserved, unlimited, unrestricted, unmitigated, unquestioning.
Some of us might be thinking is our love to each other unconditional? Please know that we are not perfect we are just a human being, there will be a time that we will be questioning ourself if we really love him or her especially if our relationship is on the rocks. What I know if you really love the person the questioning will stop even though it is not answered by the end of the day.
Here is an example that I personally think I can consider an unconditional love;
Loving your partner even though he or she is sick, not just some illness but a terminal case. Think about this, can you love someone even though you know to yourself that your love one will not last long than you expected. You have a lot of plans in the future but reality check you can longer do it,
Can you be a lover/caregiver/nurse/doctor because all we know the effort that you exerting can't be returned by your partner because he or she is ill. Loving your partner in this condition is really commendable.
Now, let's turn the table. Can you still love the person even though you know to yourself that you will not live long enough with him/her? You know to yourself that he or she is not giving up and this makes you question yourself if you are really worth it to him or her.
You know to yourself that you don't really want to let go but your situation cause you the dilemma, if you want to continue or not.
Think about this, your partner is exerting all the effort that he or she is doing so fighting for your love is the best way for you to return it. Last thing, fighting to survive and to live long is also the best way to returned all the effort of your partner. If you are doing this well I also commend you for it.
This kind of relationship is really an unconditional love because it is a love that is worth fighting for. Not all will experience this situation but if you are or you will, if you know that your love to each other is worth fighting for then go for it, fight for it. There can always be a miracle that may happen. If there isn't then just cherish the moment, every second, every minute and every day you are together.
Loving someone give us the most feel good experience and the worst experience also, but I think not giving up to each other is one of the key why you are still together. Always think as long as you are still in a healthy relationship and it is worth fighting for, giving up is not an option. There is no exact definition of love but I do personally think it is a feeling we sometimes hate and some times look for.
I hope you will like my post and please do leave your honest comments to my post. I am so thankful to all who reads my post and I really appreciate. To the people who will read my post I thank you in advance.
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